The Toll of Bad Dating Experiences

November 20, 2014
The Toll of Bad Dating Experiences

“You are the sum total of everything you’ve ever seen, heard, eaten, smelled, been told, forgot – it’s all there. Everything influences each of us, and because of that I try to make sure that my experiences are positive.” Maya Angelou As an avid reader, when I finish a book I often judge it on one […]

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Is the Extraordinary Takedown of Pickup Artist Julien Blanc Just the Beginning?

November 18, 2014
Is the Extraordinary Takedown of Pickup Artist Julien Blanc Just the Beginning?

Julien Blanc is being called the most hated man in the world. He innocuously describes himself as a “dating coach” who teaches men how to be more confident. He works for Real Social Dynamics, the original pickup artist site that came out of Project Hollywood, where Erik von Markovic (Mystery) and Neil Strauss (Style) shared a […]

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Drunk Girl Speaks Out

November 18, 2014
Drunk Girl Speaks Out

This is good enough for me. For the record, “Drunk Girl” says all of the guys were perfect gentlemen. The HUS post about the drunk girl video has been removed. (H/T: Say Whaat) Lots of lessons here, but the one most relevant to my readers is this: Never allow yourself to be filmed or photographed […]

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A Player Seeks Redemption

November 13, 2014
A Player Seeks Redemption

Susan, Going to make a long story short, but I am a 29 year old attractive male who has the “Player” stigma from the people that surround me due to my old days. I have fallen in love with a friend who shows me all the signs that she likes me as well, but WILL […]

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For a Happy Marriage, Choose a Man Your Age

November 11, 2014
For a Happy Marriage, Choose a Man Your Age

(H/T: Say Whaat, MM) It is well understood that women have a strong preference for men the same age as themselves, give or take: Source: Dataclysm, OKCupid data A recent study of 3,000 married and recently divorced Americans confirms the wisdom of that evolved preference. Megan Garber writes in The Atlantic: The closer a couple is […]

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